Wives Caught Cheating

So word on the streets is, more and more wives are caught cheating on their husbands. So rather than exploring a judgemental and condemning view, I will explore this alarming increase based on the cause. Women tend to have very strong will and are least likely to cheat and even when they do, studies have shown they tend to be extremely secretive about their affairs. So what would push a woman to cheat? What would make her so careless to the extent of throwing everything away that she holds dear. Her children, a home and a man that she ‘loves’. CAUSE 1: SEXUAL STARVATION? I have been hairdressing on and off for about 15 years. More and more married women each year vented about their husbands barely touching them. Hold up what? Aren’t men supposed to be physical beasts that want to get down all day everyday? Or so most of us thought, right? Apparently not! More and more (black) men are spending a fortune on their wedding and only making love to their wives twice a year or less. Could this kind of behaviour push a sexually frustrated woman to another man’s arms? CAUSE 2: HUSBANDS CHEATING So he cheats once and he says he is never going to do it again. With her heart and confidence broken to pieces, she tries to keep her family together. As she is about to become whole again, she discovers that her husband is adulterous in nature. In a society where people frown upon divorces and broken homes, she decides to stay. Besides, the children need their father around. At this point, everything about her husband that she once loved disgusts her. So she stays, but does not fulfil her (bedroom) marital duties. Now her sexual frustration (conji) is building up. Shouldn’t she even the score? CAUSE 3: NO LOVE As time passes on, the pressure to get married becomes unbearable for most women. Desperation leads to settling. Settling leads to managing. Managing leads to frustration and frustration leads to looking for what is missing and that is usually in another man’s arms. This topic is broad, we will dig deeper in another post. CAUSE 5: SELFISHNESS Some women have it all. The loving man, a provider, a God fearing man and all the above but for some reason, unknown to us (and themselves), they still fall for flattery. CAUSE 6: IMPOTENCE This one does not need much of a discussion. Any woman facing this needs to fast and pray fervently for her spouse’s healing and deliverance from temptation whilst she waits for his healing.  I’m sure there are so many causes and solutions not discussed. What are your thoughts on this subject?   

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Reference: https://www.trustify.info/blog/infidelity-statistics-2017