Would I Date Me?

Tired of going on countless dates? Want to settle down with a decent man that respects and loves you? Well I couldn’t agree more with you. It is almost every woman’s wish to have a happily ever after. Dating can become tedious especially for the shy ladies. The single life is great until it isn’t. When you start realising that your body does not function the way it did in your teens and you are yet to meet the man of your dreams, sigh, to even think of having babies seems like a century away. Some of us have those annoyingly happy married friends that subconsciously rub their happiness in our faces. Hmmmmm. So when do you get to meet your Prince Charming? I’ll be extremely honest here. (Almost) Every woman is looking for that Prince Charming. One has to keep in mind what they like about their ideal man. What are his qualities? What makes him so irresistible that you are ready to marry him before officially meeting him? Now let us turn the tables around. Does your personality reflect the man that you desire the most? If he were to walk by without your notice would your personality draw him to you? Are you clean, tidy, considerate, willing to compromise etc? All that you desire of him, is it in you in the first place? All these are rhetorical questions that only you can answer by not jumping on the defence but being honest with yourself. Wanting what you can’t give is an extremely selfish act , period! So you need to address it to avoid being alone or settling for someone because you are afraid of being alone. I always say that a beautiful woman with an ugly personality or a hygiene problem turns ugly real fast! Do you know what the law of attraction is? YOU ATTRACT WHO YOU ARE. So if things are not going as planned, the first step is to look within. Self examination of your behaviour and motivation could be the key to unlocking success in all sorts of relationships that you encounter. So the ultimate question is, would you date you?

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